This not only leaves a bad impression on my classmates but also on my professors which reflected in my grades. I terribly missed the absence of my previous friends. I joined the marching band and I started to enjoy my school life because of my interest in music. It was observed that my loneliness affected other people as well. Doing what people like the most will help in forgetting about loneliness. Haruki Murakami, a Japanese writer, stated that “Nobody likes being alone that much, I do not go out of my way to make friends. That’s all, it just leads to disappointment.” The external factors are the main reasons to make people feel excited and forget about the internal factors associated with the person.
Discussion may result in many creative ideas and quality time is required to think personally. When people make some important decisions, they need to think deep and carefully and should underline the pros and cons. Moreover, some things are better to handle alone for privacy reasons. Being alone is required at times because the need to understand oneself is essential at one point in time. I always felt lucky that my roommate was a close school friend in my first year of college. At the beginning, we shared everything together. As time went by, we lost the closeness which we shared previously. I started to feel uncomfortable with her possessive behavior. She wanted to influence all my decisions and I followed her blindly. My study schedule was interrupted by her. Finally, I confronted her and told her that it is better if we gave some privacy to each other. This finally helped me to go back to my normal life and devoted more time to my studies. Surprisingly, I felt more comfortable. I enjoyed staying alone and doing my own things. Although we still spoke to each other, we did not stay together all the time like before. It was a better situation for the both of us. Staying alone is another way to maintain a suitable relationship with people.
In general, being alone and lonely are two totally different states which can be present in the lives of the people.